Owen looked up from his fishing tackle box and saw his friend Caleb coming up the driveway. They were going fishing that afternoon.
“Hi, Caleb,” Owen said. “Just checking to make sure all the lures and hooks are in order. I already checked my rod and dug up a bunch of worms. Mom fixed lunch for us, so let’s go!”
Owen’s thoroughness in preparing paid off. He almost always came home with a string of fish, and that day was no exception. But when Owen entered the house, his mom noticed he was unusually quiet. “Is something wrong?” she asked.
“Well, when Caleb and I were eating the lunch you sent with us, he asked me why I always bow my head and close my eyes for a few seconds before I eat,” replied Owen. “I told him I was praying, and he asked why.”
“And what did you tell him?” asked Mom.
“I told him I was thanking God for our food. Then Caleb asked me about God and church and all sorts of things, and I didn’t know what to say! I never thought about how to explain why we go to church or how I know God loves me. I just know, that’s all!” Owen was obviously feeling frustrated.
“I see.” Mom was thoughtful. “Do you know what it means to be a fisher of people?” she asked.
“Sure,” Owen answered. “It means bringing others to Jesus. We talked about that in Sunday school.”
“Before you go fishing for fish, you always check your rod and tackle and, in general, prepare carefully,” said Mom. “We need to prepare to fish for people too.”
“How do I do that?” Owen asked.
“Well, let’s talk about the things Caleb asked you,” said Mom. “Thinking through them will help you figure out how to explain God’s love for us and why Jesus died on the cross for our sins.”
“Okay,” said Owen. “Should we look up Bible verses about it too?”
“Yes, we should. Becoming familiar with God’s Word is part of preparing to be a fisher of people. So let’s prepare, and then when the chance comes, you’ll be ready with an answer for Caleb–or for anyone else who asks.”
How should Christians act when they are falsely accused, unfairly persecuted, or are asked questions about God or their faith? First Peter 3:13-22 outlines six ways to act:
- Consider ourselves blessed.
- Be unafraid
- Worship Christ as Lord
- Be ready to give an answer for our hope.
- Maintain a good conscience
- Continue in good conduct
Peter wrote to warn Christians in every generation and in every culture that we are going to be ridiculed for our beliefs about Christ, the Son of God, and we are going to be ridiculed for our behaviours. Inevitably people will laugh at us behind our backs (if not to our faces), quietly ridiculing us because we hold Jesus Christ as our Lord and follow His ways. We are never to be combative in sharing the Truth. We are to be bold and unwavering in speaking the Truth, but we should do so in meekness and respect.
Why do we put our faith in God and His Word? We probably have good reasons for believing in God. Some of us came to faith intellectually, others through family tradition, and some through life-changing experiences with the Holy Spirit. Regardless of the reason, the same thing could happen to someone else if they got to know Christ.
Christians have an incredible contribution to make to the society in which they live by breaking the cycle of people returning evil for evil. As we begin to do good, most people will return that good by doing good. Peter insists that the believer must understand what he or she believes and why one is a Christian, and then be able to articulate one’s beliefs humbly, thoughtfully, reasonably, and biblically. A peaceable life, matched with a powerful message, can bring conviction and repentance. The person who loves, befriends, genuinely cares, does life with another, and shares with others about the hope of Jesus is a fragrant aroma to a world in need.
When I was in the Scouting Movement in the 1970s, I learned that the Scouts motto was “Be prepared.” Peter offers a similar motto to his readers. Our personal testimony is one of the most powerful and compelling tools God has given us in reaching nonbelievers with the Gospel. Here are five suggestions to prepare our testimony:
- We want to be listened to, so be interesting. No one, no matter how gracious, enjoys being bored.
- We want to be understood, so be logical. We should think of our salvation in three phases and build our testimony accordingly.
- Before we were born again-the loneliness, lack of peace, absence of love, unrest, and fears
- The decision that changes your life
- The change, the difference Christ has made since we have received Christ.
- We want the moment of our new birth to be clear, so be specific
- We want our testimony to be used, so be practical. Be human and honest as we talk.
- We want our testimony to produce results, so be warm and genuine. A smile breaks down more barriers than cold, hard facts. Be friendly and sincere,
We will sometimes suffer for doing good just as Jesus did. He told us that it would be so. In John 15:20, Christ said “A servant is not greater than his master. If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you.” Christians cannot confidently be ready to give a defense unless they have immersed themselves in God’s Word. They should know their faith and practice well enough to be able to point others to Jesus with their answers.
There is the kind of suffering which comes into the life of the Christian simply because we have done evil by missing the mark or disobeying God. Peter warns against this kind of suffering when he writes in 1 Peter 4:15, “But let none of you suffer as a murderer, a thief, an evildoer, or as a busybody in other people’s matters.” This kind of suffering is simply the logical consequence of sin. It is a good example of the way cause and effect works in our lives. If God’s people live according to His Word, they will not suffer as evildoers but for their good conduct. People may slander a Christian, but revilers should never be proven right in their accusations.
Peter encourages us to share the blessings of God with others. The “good life” is never to be kept for ourselves; it is to be shared with others. Peter suggests three steps we should follow in sharing the good life:
- Sanctify the Lord God in our hearts. The Christian faith makes no sense nor does Christian lifestyle ever work until and unless we “set apart” our lives to allow Jesus Christ to be Lord. To be holy is to be different. It is to be like the Lord who is the personification of holiness.
- Always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you. In writing to a suffering church and its hurting people, Peter speaks about the life of hope. Outwardly, those people had little reason to rejoice or to have hope. But because of Christ living in them, they were displaying hope in their lives even when outward circumstances seemed very hopeless. No wonder people would ask them, “Why are you so filled with hope?” By spending time with Him in prayer and in Scripture daily, we are strengthening our own faith and confidence in our relationship with Him and are able to communicate more effectively the hope that we have in Jesus.
- Share it with meekness and fear and a good conscience. As we share the good life with others, we must do so with the spirit of Christ-with gentleness, respect and a clear conscience. Peter recognizes that it is vitally important for a Chrisitan to have a clear conscience if he or she is to be used by God effectively in sharing the good life with others. The Christian does not have the option of living a “double life or a “secret life.” Responding to others in gentleness and respect and a clear conscience has some wonderful benefits for everyone who is involved.
Suffering for doing good seems to be much more of a challenge in most of our lives than suffering for doing evil. By our very human nature we seem to be surprised by it, and we tend to resist it in every possible way. Peter tells us not to be surprised by it, and in these verses he reveals that we should not resist it but instead we should enjoy the benefits of suffering for doing good. It is better to suffer for doing good, “if it is the will of God.” God is not the source of evil or suffering, but He allows suffering to come into our lives even as He allowed it to come into the life of His dear Son, Jesus Christ, and into the life of His servant Job. Peter summarizes the gospel message in four phases. Christ suffered, was put to death, and was raised from the dead for us, that He might bring us to God.
One minister wrote that his simple explanation of why he was a Christian is this: “The best way to live is to love as Christ loves. There is no better way to live your life here on earth than to love as Jesus Christ taught us to love. That’s just the way it is. And we discover that the love of Christ is not only for this life but for eternal life. From the Bible, we know the ‘steadfast love of God lives forever.” In other words, when I die, I don’t simply die but continue in the love of God forever. Yes, that is what Christ means for me. Love for this life. Eternal love for the next life.”
We have two choices when we feel pressured to be quiet about our faith. We can worry, or we can worship. That means we either panic or pray, We either focus on the problem and the pressure or we focus on God. We do not have to be afraid of or troubled by people who oppose us. Instead, we are to honour Jesus as our Lord, as our first-above-all. From that position of strength, with our feet firmly planted in the truth, we are to tell people exactly why we have an incredible hope in Him.
(An audio version of this message can be found at 1 Peter 3 verses 13-22 Be Prepared)
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